my answer (still) is NO....

 

I'd say no, but still people change. It's not always "once a cheater always a cheater"

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Depends. If YOU are a cheater then YES (because YOU deserve a second chance). If not then NO.

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i think if both parties will review and learn why that person cheated and the weigh of the relationship, maybe...

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CHEATER IS ALWAYS BEEN A CHEATER BUT IT'S UP TO YOU IF YOU GIVE THEM SECOND CHANCE, YOU ARE THE JUDGE.........

everyone deserves a second chance

people  may change, they may deserve a second chance, but then, who wants to be in a relationship without trust? We must admit na kahit i-try natin ng husto na ibalik yung trust for a person, hindi na ganun kadali. lagi pa rin tayong nagkakaron ng "baka ganito" or "baka ganyan". And kung ganung klase ang babalikan nating relationship, magiging unfair lang for both party.

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counseling....

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prince:

counselling....

does it really work? tried that on my past relationship, but it didnt work. or maybe im just naturally praning.  

 

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b1g_s1stah:

prince:

counselling....

does it really work? tried that on my past relationship, but it didnt work. or maybe im just naturally praning.  

 

it worked to some of my friends, but if one party is not willing, and wont forgive and forget, it will not work, but it is always better to try...

i recommend counseling before marriage, some church wants that...by the way, what kind of counseling did you go to?

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oh that, yes that is a requirement for marriage application.

i was talking about peer counseling lang, since bf ko lang yun guy. didnt really work. but i think that's good. if i gave him the second chance, i dont think i'll be with the hubby. 

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b1g_s1stah:

oh that, yes that is a requirement for marriage application.

i was talking about peer counseling lang, since bf ko lang yun guy. didnt really work. but i think that's good. if i gave him the second chance, i dont think i'll be with the hubby. 

sana naman kahit sa guidance counselor or sa mga pari/pastor, peers---medyo hindi ako bilib diyan lalo na kung immature din sila...

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DO CHEATERS DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE?--------no!! its never gonna work ,,you'll always have doubts ..ma pa praning ka lang sa kakaisip-if what he/she is doing without you,,  you may brushed off the idea that he/she is gonna do it again but deep within, something is formulating.... eventhough how hard you try not to include the subject in your fights and petty quarrels but unconsiously it will pop..then a chain reaction will float..  TRUST is one of the key elements in a good relationship.. and its important that you have peace of mind.. if you dont trust someone, surely you wont attain this,,then how could you be both happy...then whats the use of having a relationship if you are not happy...

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cassidyb:

DO CHEATERS DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE?--------no!! its never gonna work ,,you'll always have doubts ..ma pa praning ka lang sa kakaisip-if what he/she is doing without you,,  you may brushed off the idea that he/she is gonna do it again but deep within, something is formulating.... eventhough how hard you try not to include the subject in your fights and petty quarrels but unconsiously it will pop..then a chain reaction will float..  TRUST is one of the key elements in a good relationship.. and its important that you have peace of mind.. if you dont trust someone, surely you wont attain this,,then how could you be both happy...then whats the use of having a relationship if you are not happy...

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it sounds like this advice is based from personal experience....i think this matter is a case to case basis, it is up to the couple if they are going to try, people makes mistakes, not because they dont love their partner, there is something that triggers cheating, and that one needed to be identified---the cause...we can easily judge the effect---in this case cheating....but are we really looking the scenario in a bigger picture?

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jhen143:

everyone deserves a second chance

I agree. If you really love the person, you'll always give him that second chance. But once you fill your mind with the nasty things he did, then it will be hard to give that.
 

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jhen143:

everyone deserves a second chance

 I agree. Everybody deserves to have at least a second chance for that critical change.

no!

once a cheater WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEATER! 

ateJo_:

no!

once a cheater WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEATER! 

dont you wanna know why they cheat?

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prince:

ateJo_:

no!

once a cheater WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEATER! 

dont you wanna know why they cheat?

 
they cheat because they dont love their partners enough para maging faithful sila? 

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b1g_s1stah:

prince:

ateJo_:

no!

once a cheater WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEATER! 

dont you wanna know why they cheat?

 
they cheat because they dont love their partners enough para maging faithful sila? 

or maybe, they cheat because their partners are not giving them enough attention as they would like to have, making them look for someone who's gonna be able to give it? 

(nxt poster, continue with a question ) 

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