Pardon me, you guys, I don't know whether I am posting this on the right board. But here is my 2 cents worth: Try not to go looking for that relationship because although it may be hard to believe, the harder you look the more difficulty in finding it. Love comes to those who wait and often, it comes at a moment when you are not looking. Instead, try to use your time to find yourselves, develop your interests, enjoy your own company and the company of friends , develop your intellect, find passion in your studies or work or causes. Love will find you, in time.
Here's are some self-concept questions? What are you like as a person? What are your interests? If you could choose an object that symbolizes you, what would that be?