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Lea Salonga... My Life
Shirley Matias-Pizarro
This year, Lea Salonga, the most successful Filipino artist who conquered the international musical theater and recording, marks her 30th year in the business with a concert.
Lea’s two-night concert will take us back into her journey as a performer from a Third World country armed with a world-class singing voice.
"Lea… My Life… On Stage," is slated on May 23 and 24, 8 p.m. at the Philippine International Convention Center (PICC).
The concert is produced by media and entertainment mogul Ambient Events, together with her brother, award-winning musical director Gerard Salonga and FILharmoniKa and long time mentor and multi-awarded stage director Freddie Santos.
Part and parcel of Lea’s concert is her auspicious beginnings with Repertory Philippines , all the way to her West End and Broadway triumphs to this day where Lea continues to shine in her every endeavor.
In this feature, Lea, as always, generously shares part of herself.
1. How do you define or describe who you are?
I describe myself as honest (sometimes to a fault), blunt, professional, disciplined, focused, hard-working, romantic, emotional, loyal (hurt my loved ones, I hurt you), trusting (till you prove yourself unworthy of it). I shoot from the hip, and I love to laugh. I love my friends to pieces, and my family even more so.
2. What do you think is the general perception of people about you?
That I’m aloof or "suplada", as well as hard to reach. These are perceptions that have been with me for as long as I can remember... even from childhood, I think! Those close to me know that this isn’t the case.
3. What is your perception of yourself?
Hmmm... I can be a little difficult to get to know. Most people I meet know me only "to a point", and it takes a lot of people in combination to get a complete picture of me. No one knows me wholly. I always reserve and keep something from everyone I know, be it friend, family or foe. That’s just the way it is.
4. If you are to say one thing that the public doesn’t know about you, what will it be?
That I cry easily, even with commercials. It’s only gotten worse since I had a baby... every time I see a heartwarming commercial with small children in it, I start to tear up. My husband thinks it’s hilarious.
5. What does it take to be your friend?
Besides a sense of humor (the more wicked the better), and general niceness, you have to be someone I respect. I like a lot of people in the world, but unless I have respect for them, I can’t be friends with them. So the friends that I do have and keep are people I also look up to in some way.
6. Have you found the characteristics you were looking for in your life partner?
Thankfully, yes. I was looking for someone smart, sweet, devoted to family, understanding of me as a person, loving, funny, God-fearing and good-looking. I got all that in one person, and even more too.
In the way that he was raised, Rob understands my own upbringing. It was something that bonded us early. That, and the fact that we both love video games and technology as much as we do. Chances are Nicole will have a similar inclination... then again, maybe not.
7. Do you consider yourself successful? Where and to whom do you think you owe your career?
I consider myself incredibly blessed to be doing what I love to do for a living. So yeah, I guess I do consider myself successful, in the sense that I have the best job in the world and am active in it. There isn’t anything else I’d rather be doing. I know that I could never ever sit behind a desk all day... I don’t have the patience or the attention span. However, I do have the dedication to learn an intricate melody or a monologue to the point of obsession.
I owe my career to many people: God, my supportive family and friends, mentors, producers, directors, show creators, fellow actors and singers, members of the press, make-up artists, hairdressers, publicists, costume/gown designers, musical directors, musicians, sound engineers, recording companies, teleprompter operators, stage managers, crew guys, the box office, and everyone that comes to see my shows: my fans! Thank you all so very much, and I apologize if I forgot anyone.
8. Do you consider yourself rich (financially)? Why? Where do you invest your money?
I consider myself and my family able to take care of ourselves without worry, but not to the point that we’ll never have to work again. We still have to, and that’s a good thing. I don’t think any of us could ever live idly. That’s just not us. We love the work we do, and would love to keep doing it for as long as possible.
In the bank! We try to be prudent and smart with our investments, to allow for volatility and the unpredictability of the future. Sure we’ve made a few missteps along the way, but we learn from them.
9. Do you pay taxes honestly?
Of course! My accountant is also helpful in this regard.
10. What’s your idea of splurging?
A really nice meal... video games/DVDs... new technology... a great pair of shoes... a really nice pair of shades... a funky purse... a holiday... stuff like that.
11. Who or what do you think "cheapen" show biz image? Who do you think lend royalty to it?
Hmmm... unnecessary intrigue... sensationalizing for publicity... artists being stupid... excessive alcohol and drug use... not being mindful of one’s public image... being unprofessional... throwing an unwarranted fit without caring for whomever happens to be around... scandal.
Consummate professionalism... being good to fans... creating great shows for everyone to enjoy... being aware of how to behave in public... showing respect to fellow artists, both old and new... being a positive representative of our industry and craft... and being a good role model for young people. A positive image goes a long way in lending royalty to this industry.
12. Is being gay in show biz an issue?
Not for me, no. Nor should it be.
13. Do you consider yourself sexy? Why?
Ha ha ha ha! I can’t consider myself sexy! Someone else has to!
14. Among celebrity men and women – who is sexy to you and why?
Without a doubt, George Clooney. No bulls***, looks wonderful in a tux, has a wry sense of humor, and the older he gets, the better he looks. Angelina Jolie. Intelligence, motherhood, an all-embracing compassion, big souful eyes, and the most beautiful lips on any human.
15. In an industry that they say thrives on duplicity, is sincerity an asset in this business?
Sincerity, or the appearance thereof, is very important. Fans — yours truly included — can take things very personally when an artist lies, or appears to be lying. It’s important to a fan that their object of admiration is truthful to them.
Imagine when a famous actor, for example, tells God and everybody that he’s totally single and cruising the singles scene… how awful it is therefore when it’s revealed he’s keeping a wife and 3 kids at home! That hurts!
16. Do you consider yourself an honest person? Why? Who do you think are the sincerest persons in this business and why?
Yes I do… sometimes to someone else’s chagrin. I call things as I see them. Sometimes it’s appreciated, and sometimes, it pisses people off. So be careful when asking for my opinion, you might not like what you’ll hear.
Oh goodness, I don’t circulate much in showbusiness so it would be unfair of me to enumerate. I’d like to think that the people I’ve gained as friends are incredibly sincere and generous. I can’t really name names, as there may just be too many to list!
17. What was the worst thing ever written about you? What was the best thing ever written about you?
Whatever it was, I can’t remember it. I’ve either forgiven it or completely forgotten it. Everyone in showbiz gets their fair share of bad reviews… can’t really dwell on them, I guess.
I can’t remember that either! I guess I forget the good stuff too! An old friend said, if you believe the good reviews, you have to believe the bad ones too. So I just go by how an audience reacts at the particular moment and take it from there. Having said that, I’m thankful for every nice thing ever written about me! Truly I am!
18. Think of three most disliked people in show biz.
Oh goodness… I don’t know who the disliked people are so I wouldn’t know what to say! And there really isn’t anyone I don’t like in this business, but if there was someone I disliked with a passion, it would be "clean up your act… no one really respects you right now."
19. Was there ever a time you encountered duplicity in this business that led to a heartbreak?
I don’t know if it was a duplicitous act, but I have experienced heartbreak in this business… it was an absolutely terrible time and one that took away my respect for the person that committed the act. It took quite a few years for me to recover.
Our relationship, although somewhat mended, will never really be the same as before. I’m okay with that, that’s life I guess.
20. What is immoral to you? Do you believe that immorality is prevalent in show biz?
Immorality is anything that takes away from what comes from God. It’s prevalent everywhere, but perhaps more pronounced in showbusiness because everyone in it is public property and the environment seemingly more permissive.
More quotable quotes from Lea
• What do you pray for?
I pray that my family is always healthy and happy, that I’m able to sing and perform for many years more, and that our country enjoys a greater level of stability and gains respect in the eyes of the worldwide community.
• Do you consider yourself a good person? Why?
I consider myself fair. Not good, but fair. I’m not perfect, I’m certainly very human, and there’s a ways to go before I can call myself "good". I don’t think I’m there yet.
• If you die tonight, where do you think you will go? Heaven or hell?
I’d probably spend some time in purgatory to figure out where I went wrong… once I’ve learned all the lessons laid out for my lifetime, then maybe I’ll head to heaven. But only when God thinks it’s right for me.
• If you are not who you are today, what profession would you be in?
I don’t know! This is all I really know! Maybe a doctor specializing in pediatrics or voice.
• Is education important to you?
Education has always been important in my family, and was always encouraged. It’s something that cannot ever be taken away from me. It’s something I’d like to one day complete, when I have the free time in which to do it. Maybe when Nic herself is in school, then I’ll be able to devote the time and energy to school.
• Would you go for beauty or brains? Would you rather be rich or good looking?
Brains, please… they have a longer shelf life than a pair of boobs.
I’d rather be rich… it’s easier to be charitable when you have the funds. Good looks can only get a person so far. It most certainly doesn’t guarantee riches.
• What makes you angry? How do you get angry? How do you let off steam?
Oh goodness… a loss of trust, disloyalty, underhandedness, insincerity, when someone hurts any of my loved ones, injustice, malicious intent. As for how I get angry, sometimes I can feel my eyesight start to blur and my hands start to shake… I don’t have full control over what I’m about to say (and thus hurl some painful, hurtful words)… I have a hard time getting to sleep… and I cry uncontrollably. It’s a mental state I’d much rather not be in, to be honest.
I write in my journal (it helps to see the actual written manifestation of my anger right in front of me) or talk things out in my head or aloud… sometimes, stepping outside of myself and listening to words being said in a third person context help me to be objective about my emotions. It’s like being in therapy, without the prohibitive cost.
• How do you want to be remembered?
On my epitaph, I’d like it to read: "She did her very best at everything she did, and hopes that in the end, it’s enough."
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